I'm new to this but I feel as though I need another form of venting. I have a SD that is 3 yrs old. She works every nerve in my body. I try to be patient but I am annoyed easily by kids that don't listen. I barely deal with the BM. Since my BF & I have started dating she has tried to tarnish our relationship. We've been together 3 yrs now & have our own daughter who will be 2 this Christmas Eve. I'm concerned about the child's upbringing.