Hi, this is all very new to me. Never thought I would find myself reaching out to strangers for support. Being as I'm the first in my family to have step kids my family doesn't really understand. I have resenting become a step mom to some truly amazing kids, but sadly our situation with Bio Mom is just awful. If it's not one thing it's another. She only visits every other weekend but there's always something going wrong, not to mention her emotionally and mentally screwing with them.