DH and I have main custody of my SS who will be 10. He sees BM on weekends, something she and DH have as a written out agreement. There has been a lice problem at her house and her mother's household for years, and from what she has admitted has been over 9 years. We have asked her to take care of the problem but it is still a recurring problem to this day.

So to try and make a long story short, since I last blogged FH is now DH as of may, been together 3 yrs, he has sole custody of SS10 (vague custody wording "father had sole custody with mother having visitation at fathers discretion" long story behind that) BM has moved 14 times in 3 yrs, in aug with 24 hr notice took her other 2 kids and husband and move 3 states away for a month till they had cars repossessed. She's only had a job for 6 months ever (ended last june) her DH works cash under the table. She doesn't financially help with SS and no CO for CS or insurance.