Anyone here hate their stepkids? I do. They're little a-holes. 2 SDs (ages 10 & 12). They live with us. We aren't actually married, just living together. I resent them and as a result I'm resenting him too. He has essentially just zoned out and I'm constantly parenting his spawn by myself. They leave my house a mess constantly, have attitudes, idealize their drug addict BM, and annoy tf out of me all the time. He is glued to his phone or video games when he isn't at work. He makes way less money than I do. He is also crap at keeping anything clean or uncluttered. I'm so over it.