Hi. I'm new. I feel like I should announce myself like in AA. I'm toofreeforthis and I'm marrying a man with kids. 

I've been lurking and reading on steptalk for months. I've disengaged when the skids are here. My issue is with my DH to be. I feel like he treats me differently when his kids are here. We live together and only have the skids (12 SS and 11 SD) every other weekend. The kids are fine-just your typical kids. My own kids are 21 and 18 and away at college-thus the "free" in my name.