my step daughter just graduated high school and getting ready for collage, we have saved enough in a 529 plan to currently cover a year, Her mother thinks we should still put what we paid in child support towards her education.

she even went as far to tell us how to spend our money and I’d we could buy new cars we should be able to put that money aside.

i have medical bills , I get disability that is not much, we live a simple lifestyle.