Good afternoon all. Just needing some advice and maybe a little sanity...I am 45 years old with  2 grown children (23 and 21) from a previous marriage, 2 grandchildren (3 and 1), and 3 step-grandchildren (4,3 and 1). My husband as a 5 year old son from a previous relationship. My husband is 10 years younger than me. We have known each other 15 years and we have only been married 1 year, together for 2.  So here is just one of the many issues currently going on in my home.