So SD is really milking it, it seems. She asks for help dealing with her huge drama then as soon as she gets out of sight she does exactly what you say she should NOT do (just like anything else we ever tell her not to do or "no" to).

DH caught her eating ho-hos before dinner. She rolls her eyes. I told her I would put a lock on it if she keeps it up and she will have no deserts. She stomps off.

Tells me she is sick and needs help with homework. Okay. She has allergies; she acts like she is dying. We give her allergy medicine and a cough drop. She flops around as if she were dying. I show her how to do the first two questions. She is texting the entire time. I erase the work/answers and tell her to do it herself now that I showed her how. She whines and I tell her it is the same equations she has been doing since sixth grade, I showed her how again. She was trying to get me to do the work FOR her (common for her). She huffs off when I tell her she will be doing the homework rather than watching the TV show with and can DVR it for later.

She is being very two-faced too. She tells me how mad she is at her friend and the friend's boyfriend (whom she sneak-dated for a week), she wrote "our love will never die" and all that shit when she "tried to kill herself" with vitamins and antacids...

I swear I am trying. I am listening to her crap all day every day. I am so tired of it though. IMO she is really milking any attention she can get from it. We warned her not to run to school and tell everyone she was inpatient guess what she did...yep. FULL on attention all around! She has a mood chart from the therapist and writes "moderate depressed" everyday, but she sure looks happy and is active and bouncing and laughing until the appointment then its "awww the draaaamaaaaa why do they piiiick on meeee"...no one picked on her! She told the therapist she was being picked on after the therapist asked if she had been bullied...ugh ugh ugh ugh

Her "friend" and the boy she snuck to date at school (after we forbid her from going out with him because he was the friend's boyfriend first that friend was made to break up with by her parents) - they made up a story that *I* cussed the boy out and called him RACIST NAMES. Now, you can tell by the wording that this so-called paragraph was written by a child. It is so unintelligent that it is pitiful. I may have some country slang or miss something here or there, but I speak in sentences and do not use text speak nor 12-year-old trashy lingo. Everything was misspelled, too. SO, this "friend" spread the rumor that *I* said this to the boy; the cussing out and racist name calling supposedly over facebook...yet cannot show any proof... SD forgave them within an hour, good for her, and said she believed them that SOMEONE "hacked" her account and sent it, even though this boy and the friend couldn't show any proof of it at all... yeah...

This friend is not welcome back in my house.