To say 'hello' to everyone. I've been reading everyone's posts for over a year now, but it's my first attempt at an actual blog. It's so comforting to know that we're not the only ones out there dealing with a crazy, malicious, vindictive, always the victem bm. I really thought it was me, or something I did that caused her erratic behaviour, and nutty antics, but after finding this site, I realized that it is more common than one would think.
A little history - I have been with FH for about 2.5 years, and he has been separated from BM for over 4 years. They have 1 BD7, and I have 2 BD (17 & 14). We get along fairly well with my XH and his wife. When there are issues that arise with my bd's, we can usually work it out between the 4 of us. Not with FH's BM though. There is no reasoning with her. I swear, every little teeny tiny issue with FSD is my FH's fault, and I mean everything! When FSD cut her own hair (bangs), it wasn't because EVERY kid (most anyway) do that - it's because she's 'special & complicated' and did it to 'act out'. Whatever!
Anyhew... don't want to bore everyone on the first blog... like I said, this was more of a 'hello' than anything... I'll keep posing/commenting, and hopefully get to know everyone!
ln