Hey guys so I have an 8 year old step daughter and 2 kids of my own..When I first met my step daughter things were good. But over the past year things have gotten worse. We had a baby and she refuses to have anything to do with him but yet she plays with her other brother...who is almost 2...She tells everyone that my son is not her "real brother"...She is mean to him and will just ignore my son (who is 16 months)...

Her mother is a huge pain in the ass...Every time we turn around she is taking my husband back to court. They just went in MAY and now she is taking him again. She is trying to get sole custody of her and saying we are unfit..She is telling everyone that we are forcing my step daughter to sleep on the floor which she doesn't we went and got bunk beds for the girls and that we leave the kids outside for all hours of the day and only let them in for drinks and bathroom breaks. She is saying that she is unsupervised and trying to pull that there are 5 sex offenders near us...She is trying to suspend our visitation and have us pay her attorney fees..

It was court ordered that my husband get her into counseling and when we set up an appointment for her she told us that she would bring her and then never showed because it wasn't mutally agreed upon...So we just had my step duaghter for 2 weeks and she called the cops on us TWICE because she didn't get to speak to her daughter WHEN SHE WANTED TO...We have so much against her in court right now and I am hoping that we do get custody of her..

Her mother is a money hungry greedy you know what..All she wants is the child support money and she keeps taking him back because it's not enough..She has tried turning my step daughter against us by telling her that we don't care about her and we don't love her..She buys her everything she wants and lets her eat whatever she wants. She has gained 14 pounds in 7 months. I just took her to the doctors, dentist and to get an eye exam because her mother is to lazy to do it..My step daughter used to call me mommy and now she hardly talks to me or my husband. We know her mom is filling her head with stuff...and she doesn't like to come over because there are rules and bounderys here...

I am just so fed up with the whole situation. The court thing is getting old fast.