So Pi$$ed!
My SD12 has RAD. DH wasn't much help parenting her. After a million and one problems with her (including hurting our other kids), I banned her from my home and she is living with his parents.
After banning her from my current home and new home (until I said she respected me enough to visit), DH allowed his family to bring her to "help" us move. Then he allowed them to bring her while they met the Dish guy. They knew she was to sit on the couch or stay outside. This was after she called me a bitch (again) in our new home, with them all over-hearing and not saying a damn thing to her.
Well the latest takes the cake. DH and I were on a mini vacation to go to a friend's wedding. My family was watching our kids at our house. Apparently, while we were gone, his parents brought SD over and let her get two dresses from our home that she didn't have permission to take. I paid $200 for those dresses and due to her disrespect, she doesn't need to have them. They let her wander around my house (that she isn't even supposed to be in) to find the dresses. I had them in my master bedroom closet. They let her go in my closet and rummage through my things to find them! They know this girl steals from me all the time. They were in plastic like many of my other dresses, so she had to look through all my dresses to find them.
I am so beyond pi$$ed off you have no idea. Then hubs is mad at me for being so ticked. I told him if they do so much as pull in my driveway I will call the cops. And if those dresses are not returned, I will report them as stolen.
They force me to be a bitch...they don't hear "nice". Meet OptimisticMe in bitch mode!
My FIL called my mom and told
My FIL called my mom and told her they were on their way over because my DH had given them permission to come get the dresses. My DH had really said ok, but when we get home (so he says). Mom tried to call me but we were at the wedding and I didn't answer. This is a child she considers her grandkid, which is a bitch to her, too...so she didn't want to cause problems by following her around.
Mom says she paid attention to what she was carrying out, and it was just two dresses (unless her pockets were stuffed). I am a bit irritated my family also didn't follow her around, but it would have looked bad to my inlaws who are always quick to point a finger...I think that is what Mom was trying to avoid.
DH wouldn't let her take a
DH wouldn't let her take a $100 dresser he bought for her. One dress I bought her for my sister's wedding, the other was bought for her to wear to a dance (but she was grounded and not allowed to go). The way I see things, if I bought it for you, you may use it. But the minute you disrespect me, I have the right to take it back. I of course only see things this way with kids I parent. If you can take away an MP3, why can't you take away a dress? The dresses had been in my closet for months, even before she was kicked out. They were taken as punishment for bad behavior. One was only purchased for an event she got denied due to bad behavior. I should be able to sell it and make up some of my losses.
Wow .. the balls on some
Wow .. the balls on some people .. what do they say in their own defense? I can't even imagine what it's like to be so blatantly disrespected in my own home .. sorry
They say my mom followed SD
They say my mom followed SD around the house to supervise her, which she did not. Liars!