We are moving to our new house this weekend and its BM's weekend with SS. BM calls me Wednesday and wants me to drop SS off at her latest crash pad. I explain we are closing Thursday morning and can't. She counters with how I don't want two kids there and it will be difficult to close. Umm what planet are you from? I know she has never closed on a house so I just let it go. I tell her yeah I will manage. Then she says I can drop SS off on the way since I will pass right by. No I won't I am coming from a different place. Also SS has not seen the house and wants to see it and his new room.

Come Thursday evening BM is blowing up the phones wanting to know where we will be Friday. She wants SS early. She actually shows up at 8am. Ok this is weird. So then FDH decides to call her after he gets the rental truck. Not only did BM let SS talk to crazy FMIL and FFIL but she let him ask them to meet for lunch and agrees to take him. SS just told FDH the day before he never wants to see them again and the very next day he wants to go out with them? Something smells. FDH asks SS about it and he says he forgot. WTF? The kid is a total liar. So now we have BM telling FDH she respects his wishes and won't let them see SS and it looks like she lied too.

Three more calls and FDH finally points out that when the grandparents take them to court for visitation BM is going to look like an idiot when she says she doesn't want them to have visitation and they point out she has been letting them see SS. FDH also said if she wants to do that then she can give up one of her weekends. He also told her that would just make it all that easier for them to sue for custody. BM says oh I didn't thinly about that. Duh!

FDH ends up calling her again to make sure she didn't lie again and take him to see them.

Oh and last weekend FFIL told FDH he can stay in the mobile home on his land if he breaks our engagement and kicks me and my daughter out. Too bad we just bought a house FFIL. Guess you played that one wrong. Of course now he won't let FDH get our things out of FFIL storage trailer or my mom's lawn equipment back unless he approves of the condition of the mobile home. Too bad his other son lived in it for 7 years and fucked it up. This family is crazy.