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realitycheckmom's picture

I quit working to watch SS9 full time, do you think anyone appreciates this? Hell no. Not his piece of shit incubator, not SS, and most certainly not FDH.

I'm so sick of the attitude and the lies and the general bs. Now not only is SS an ass but his BM has stepped up her bs games. BM refused to return SS last week. She informed FDH she was going to follow the original CO. Would have been fine if she acted like an adult but no FDH went to pick him up and BM starts her shit of you can't have him I talked to ky sleaze bag lawyer and he is mine. Bitch please, in 9 years you haven't wanted him and now you want him? She tells FDH she has someone to watch him on her weeks. Yeah PASing FMIL and FFIL who you keep taking him to see even though they want custody of him and PAS him. You are a dumb bitch.

Now BM hates me and doesn't want SS with me. You should have thought of all this way back when you left him at three weeks old. Now BM starts backing down saying its just for summer and her lesbian lover who works nights and hates kids will watch him during the day while BM is at work. Ummm same woman that made him stay in the basement? What piece of shit parent. She is doing this to keep SS away from me and apparently FDH. I don't care if she takes her nasty brat but I do care that she told FDH she would not do this and then did it and had him in tears thinking she was signing him over to FMIL and FFIL.

So now SS spends a week with no rules and nonexistent parenting and comes home more of an ass than ever. I'm so lucky cause I get to deal with his bullshit. I am starting to really hate the people in my life.

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DeeDeeTX's picture

Can you get your job back or another job? When you quit you are really dependent on your DH and that makes it a lot easier to take you for granted and a lot harder for you to GTFO if the situation is intolerable.

Bottom line with you not having a job you are really dependent on DH being nice and appreciative and it doesn't sound like that is happening.

realitycheckmom's picture

I want to scream. FDH just came by saying I was pissed at him and when I told him what really bothered me (something t
BM#2 and SD20 who is BM#1's kid did) he said so what, can't do anything about it. I yelled across the house at him that I'm sick of being treated like shit and he gets holier than thou saying we agreed not to do this meaning fight in front of the kids. Try not walking away and having a conversation. I swear this situation is getting worse. It went downhill when we moved into the new house. I'm sick of the skid and his crap and daddy saying he needs help and all this shit. I'm sick of FDH making me the bad guy and excusing his kids bad behavior but ripping on my 3yr old for being a 3 yr old.

Purplemom's picture

Disengage and get a job so he isn't such a cocky bastard... he knows you are stuck and he is taking advantage of that. Fix that and I bet it will go a long way to changing his crappy attitude.