Custody modification begins and I'm scared
We have submitted the final ok for modificaton and I'm scared. I'm told I have "too high" standards exspecting honesty from people around me, which leaves me pretty much friendless. I feel alone. BM is ruthless and takes huge offence of anything I have to say much less her bullshit being challenged. I sit here at the mercy of the legal process, which has time again failed not only me but the four (bd 17,14. bs 12 and ss8)children in our home. It seems being a peice of shit liar holds more weight than being a good person. I'm sorry for my pity party. Like I said, I feel alone and scared. It's not DH she goes after, it's me and my children. I don't undestand how a person can be so hateful. My "crime" is taking care of ss8. I feel hopeless and spent. Tomorrow is another day right? Freaking great
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Narcissistic BM's never see
Narcissistic BM's never see anything as in the best interest of the kids. It's always about them. What's in it for them, what can they gain out of this mentality.
We too are in the midst of changing our custody. Every time we go to court, BM ups the anti by playing her PAS games, attacks me, DH and anything not pinned down. She's like a tornado, sucking everything she can into her vortex.
Like a tornado...prepare yourself and family for a storm, find a way to ride the storm and figure out what your "safe place" is.
For me, I share with my adult bio's and adult skids what is happening (like custody modification), I usually become engrossed in projects around my house to keep busy. My Dh and I have said to one another "This is going to be a difficult time, we need to be especially kind and understanding to one another". I document everything that happens with BM and what DH does with the skids (because BM loves to say, DH spends no time with his kids)
It disheartening to hear that things usually do not work out for the NCP, but we all live with hope. And pray that we all have a Judge like Former had in her case. Her Judge saw through her BM for what she really is. Good Luck to you