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Just when I think SD16 has hit a limit in unreal behavior

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Submitted by Helena.Handbasket on Mon, 04/30/2012 - 8:27am

SS, SO and I are in the kitchen chatting about paint colors. SD16 comes in and says "Daaaad, I need to ask you something, but its really embarrassing." SO: Ok what? "its embarrassing, but is it a bad thing if my butthole itches? Its not really bad, but sometimes I'm walking around I have to scratch"

I told her to wipe and she wouldn't have that problem. I guess she didn't get my sarcasm and she went further in to the conversation. I had to walk away.

Later I told SO "honey, I have to tell you something. My butthole itches". Then I crack up laughing. After that I just tell him your daughter is a weirdo. I didn't care what he thought at that point. She's an idiot.

He goes yeah, you'd think she would have said she needed to tell me something in private. No SO you'd think she wouldn't want to ask her DAD crap like that.

All weirdos.

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Submitted by herewegoagain on Mon, 04/30/2012 - 8:30am

huh? oh my...what is it with these girls having no shame? amazing...does she not have a computer to look things up? can she not say, "take me to the doctor, but it's something private"...disgusting women.

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Submitted by Helena.Handbasket on Mon, 04/30/2012 - 8:32am

I know, right? Can she not ask her mom?? another female??? No, she asks dad in front of me and her brother. These girls are not taught any modesty at all.

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Submitted by BabyDoll on Mon, 04/30/2012 - 8:53am

I agree with you. This kind of behavior is downright weird. As a teenage girl, I would have never asked questions about something regarding a private part of my body with someone of the opposite sex even if they were my Dad.

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Submitted by Helena.Handbasket on Mon, 04/30/2012 - 10:27am

Good one!

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Submitted by Agged and Fragged on Mon, 04/30/2012 - 9:19am

Just throwing this out there ... scanned your blog/s and didn't see any mention of abnormal (read, lack) of hygiene on SD's behalf, could be pinworms *shrug*

Yes, the whole going to dad about something so embarrassing to begin with then having no modesty and bringing it up in front of the entire family is just unreal. I don't get the whole "any attention is good attention as long as I'm the center of it" attitude that seems to pervade many teenaged girls.

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Submitted by Helena.Handbasket on Mon, 04/30/2012 - 10:28am

She's doesn't have any hygiene issues that I know of. The only thing she does that I find weird (which many won't) is that she still bathes. I shower. Just a personal preference. Otherwise, I feel like I'm just sitting in dirty water.

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Submitted by blendedblissnot on Mon, 04/30/2012 - 9:44am

It's about lack of boundaries-of course she has no problem asking him.

I would have said simply "tried soap"? If it's itching consistenly though it could be worms. But yeah why not ask mom or another female? Who knows...they just suffer from severe lack of father/daughter boundaries, ALL SD's do.

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Submitted by LilyBelle on Mon, 04/30/2012 - 9:52am

All SD's don't have boundary issues. There are some parents who are aware and cognizant, and who are intentional about raising their kids, and have healthy relationships with appropriate boundaries.

Those people don't come on sites like this because they don't have a need for a place to vent about the unhealthy relationships and boundary issues.

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Submitted by LilyBelle on Mon, 04/30/2012 - 10:36am

You're right! A lot of them on here have not been parented with intentional thought. Ugh!

My daughter would never ask a question like that to a member of the opposite sex, and wouldn't ask even me something like that if someone else was around.

It all goes back to parenting.

Just about everyone here fell in love with someone and then discovered we had very different parenting philosophies, and we're trying to figure out how to survive it.