My two year old is driving me crazy, I can't do anything with her. When I give her a bath she screams the entire time. When I sit her on the potty she screams the entire time. She screams and fights with her siblings all day. She screams at nap time. She screams at bedtime. She doesn't eat her meals and then gets into the pantry or up to the counter and eats all the bananas or graham crackers. When I try to get her to do anything I get an attitude or she ignores me.

She screams if I forget to tuck her in or forget the desitin. She cries if I won't give her a snack. It gets to the point where I dread interacting with her because I know she is going to scream or try to get out of it. Any ideas on putting a stop to this?