So these could either be good or bad depending on how you look at it. 1. BM called at 10pm last night to say that she had gone to the hospital for a spider bite in one of her veins that swelled up her ahnd she she couldnt move it. Hmm lets see an IV herion user who shoots up in her hand has a one fanged spider bite? (one fanged because she is an idiot and she sent SO a picture of the wound before she went) and hmm I didn't know that spider venom was hard adn silver. From what the picture looked like it seems that BM has broken her first needle into her hand. The good side? She went to the hospital so when and if there are any issues about who is the more competent parent.... hmm I would say the non drug users.
2. The girls are starting to ask less and less to talk to their mom. they more frequently request there gmom on that side, their aunt etc. SD5 even rolled her eyes last night when her mom was going through the "mommy loves you" sap. Then when her mom was like "and I will take you guys for pizza at Chuckie Cheese and " SD5 cut her off and said "yeah ok mom, just like you are going to get my DSI back from the pawn shop right?" I know I know that is bad behavior and I should not promote it, but the girl is finally realizing what her mom is and is learning to seperate the truth from the bull. This will prevent anymore days where the girls will get up and get dressed and wait by the door all day and or night because mommy is coming to see them or take them somewhere only to be led into true dissapointment. Now if only SD3 could see this. Altough she is the one who says "hi mommy i wanna talk to granny"