UPDATE ON SD
Well she was punished...
For 1/2 hour..Then she said she was sorry and daddy gave her back her phone as she left the room she smiled at me.....MF
Yah so yesterday I had the day off...Did i pick up SD...NO....Did I even let her come home....NO....Told hubby I had a seminar all day sorry!!! }:) Then told SD from now on if she needs to say anything to me please tell me to my face...She said ohhh so nice OK....I wanted to slap her. and blocker her number yesterday i was so pissed.....F&*^ this
DH and I had a little fight, well big fight.....But now whatever...i dont have her this weekend at all...I am enjoying my weekend even though my X just pissed me off to.....But NO DRAMA this weekend i won't have it!!!!! 
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That is it??? Sorry, but my
That is it??? Sorry, but my DH would be getting the silent treatment for days if it played out like this in my house??? Can you turn off her phone???
No I wish I could....His
No I wish I could....His responce was what are you going to do...I said take the F'in phone from her.....I wasn't winning so havent really talked to him much...Now he is kissing my ass...going to be alot of kissing my ass this weekend that is for SURE!!!!
WOW. Now I do give my DH
WOW. Now I do give my DH credit on that. He would have shit a brick if SS ever talked to me like that. SS got away with sooooo much, but he knew that his dad would not let him be like that.
My advice…tell DH that you are disappointed because SD should have lost her phone for AT LEAST a week for talking to you like that. (her being ugly to you, obviously does not matter to your DH) And if she ever talks to you like that again, and DH does not take her phone for at least a week, you will disengage SOOO much that it will make his head spin.
He knows i am still
He knows i am still pissed...and i will address it again without a fight on how i feel about the whole thing.....But until then....Help out with bringing her to school and all I told DH I will not be taking her to school until i feel more comfortable....He had to call his father this morning to come get her....Keep calling I am not doing it...
Stand firm and do nothing for
Stand firm and do nothing for that child. Unless he forces her to respect you, this will continue...If he can't punish her for her treatment of you and he should have, then you have to disengage from her completely. That means nothing unless you want to do it. But, if you bend and do something you are showing them that it is okay to treat you that way. For me, that text would have been my tipping point.
Absolutely! Do nothing for
Absolutely! Do nothing for her from now on, and block her damn number. She has no business calling you. If she needs something, she can call one of her parents. She's not your child, not your problem.
Then told SD from now on if
Then told SD from now on if she needs to say anything to me please tell me to my face...
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You need to somehow take this back and let her text you. If it is in text, she will be more likely to be braver about being a little shit and you will have proof.
She has the proof in the
She has the proof in the other texts...Her DH still did nothing about it...
I would be so done with that
I would be so done with that crap. SO has ignored SDs disrespectful treatment of me in the past. Thats why I made the decision to be done.
I think it is time to
I think it is time to disengage from her completely. Like others have said not your kid. There is no reason for you to do her laundry, cook, shop for the "snacks" she likes, watch her tv show, supervise sleepovers.
Personally if I were you I would sit SO down and simply lay it all out. Her disrespect is going to stop because you are not doing anything that benefits her. Plain and simple. You deserve respect, if she talks to you that way how does she treat other people? I would be unglued if I were you. SO would be beaten down for not punishing her for disrespect and for trying to manipulate adults like that. Plus why was she texting when she was at school? There are rules against it in I believe EVERY School district in Oregon I cant imagine that it is that different in other states.
I think disengaging is your best choice.
I agree totally.....I am
I agree totally.....I am done... and stepaside he did not talk to her infront of me...When i came home from a 12 hour shift she said i am sorry kind of cocky and then her father said and it will never happen again.....Then she left the room and smiled....F^&% her.....I'm done. This was the only time she has talked to me like that and the LAST!!!! My 20 year old doesn't even talk to me like that....I will not have it and i told DH that.....