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So sick of being the BAD COP

hbell0428's picture

My DH has been off work for awhile (hurt at work) so he gets to play all day.....needless to say I am the one working and doing all the house stuff; I make sure the kids are in bed at a decent time, etc.........I told him last night that if I wasn't around the house would be run by the kids - a party flop house; the kids KNOW daddy is the one to run to for fun time!! I am sick of it!!
So what does he do last night........decides to take the 3 kids to see a movie at 10:00 at night; they didn't get home till after 1 a.m.!!!!!!! Is it just me or..........

Dannee's picture

Nope not just you but you are part of the problem..

If parents can not work together and they choose to work against eachother..

well the house, the relationship and all of everything involved will shatter...

Your husband sounds like a big old DISNEY DAD....

and you are Cinderella!!!

Get your big girl pants on and speak to Mickey Mouse..and tell him that things
need to change...

If he is unwilling to work with you..well then if you choose you are looking at your future...

Good Luck and Peace

hbell0428's picture

Oh believe me......I have my big girl panties on; I am for the most part a drill sergeant......what I say typically goes (in the end) If I am mad......noone is happy! it just pisses me off sometimes that I have to deal w/ him being like that

my.kids.mom's picture

Why didn't you put your feet up and break open the wine while they were gone? At least they weren't tearing up the house. Count your blessings!