I have found that help raising girls that have no respect for you is hard. I'm always holding my thoughts until I can no more. They go after me because I think they think I'm a easy target. I'm dealing with a ex-wife that is not in the picture except when she comes off the meds and thinks about her children. I have to deal with the mental issues that goes along with it and also the issue they do not want to see there daddy happy with anyone. I love there daddy but sometimes I wonder if it's worth it to stay.