Oh HELL no! I went out for a bit tonight, and I come home to find DH in a pissy mood and SD10 blubbering. I calmy ask what happened and lo and behold DH caught SD10 stealing change out of our room! I went about my business determined to stay out of it. Well DH tells SD10 point blank he wanted the truth right then. Her answer was a lie and DH called her on it. Her answer for that one? "but I'm so USED to lying" DH called bullshit on that one. And told her "gee it's really funny that you has absolutely NO problem telling the truth a week and a half ago and then you saw BM and the crap just starts flowing out of your mouth" my jaw dropped. He has NEVER said anything like that to SD EVER the look on her face was priceless and she said "but BM lies and said it's okay" I thought DHs head was going to POP! well DH tells SD "yeah well, how far has that gotten her?" and SD said "in trouble" EXACTLY! well DH sent SD to bed and just stared at me. Then he finally said "okay.your right, the bs gets worse after they see her. I see it now and I'm sorry" FINALLY he sees what I have put up with for the last week and he's not around! He also made the comment that now he sees WHY everything gets documented!