I married my DH in June so we are still newlyweds. He has two sons from his previous marriage. I have a almost 5 year old (in two weeks) son from my first marraige. So we both have kids so it should be easy right??? Well no its not. My DH's ex wife decided to take off while he was at work and move to another state. Then while she and him were trying to work things out she got pregnant again. Then moved again. She thinks that he needs to move to where she is even though we are still living in the same place he was when she left two years ago. She thinks it is funny to tell us that the money we send for child support goes to her. She refuses to work and lives off the kids. She obviously doesnt want the boys cause they cramp her relationship with her new boy friend. We want them, but she refuses to loose the support. My ex and I are also having issues with our son. Who my ex adopted more or less he is not the bio dad. I know this is really complicated but it usually works. I am having issues after being around the BM with having my son around my ex's gf. She is nice and all I really have no problem with her, I just want to be the only mommy. The BM through the kids on me and told them I was their new mommy otherwise I wouldnt be as involved as I am, plus my husband works 14 hour days. The boys will be here on sunday and I can not wait I love those little boys, but still trying to be ok with a nother woman around my son. I have him the majority of the time so its not like he is around her that much any advice? :?