:jawdrop: MY SD11 IS MOVING AWAY AND WE ARE KEEPING MY SS14. MB DOES NOT HAVE TO PAY ANY CHILD SUPPORT AND WE HAVE TO CARRY MEDICAL ON BOTH. SO I GO TO CLEAN OUT SD11'S ROOM AND FIND MULTIPLE STASHES OF UNDERWEAR WITH SKID MARKS. I TELL MY BF AND HE SAYS HE DOESN'T WANT TO BRING IT UP BECAUSE HE ONLY HAS A FEW DAYS WITH HER BEFORE SHE MOVES. OK. FINE. WHATEVER. THEN I FIND ONE OF MY DECORATIONS (A SILLY FROG PRINCE) BROKEN AND STASHED IN ONE OF HER PURSES. I POINT BLANK ASKED HER IF SHE'D SEEN IT WHEN I REALIZED IT WAS MISSING AND SHE LOOKED AT ME AND SAID "I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHICH ONE YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT" ... SO I WAS PISSED. BF STILL DOES NOT WANT TO DEAL WITH IT B/C HIS TIME IS LIMITED. SO NOW, WE ARE FIGHTING! THIS ISN'T FAIR! HE THEN STARTS BASHING ON MY DISCIPLINE WITH CHILDREN (HE IS MUCH MORE INVOLVED WITH MINE THAN I AM WITH HIS) AND SAYS HE SHOULD'VE STAYED ON HIS BUSINESS TRIP. I TOLD HIM THAT FROM NOW ON ALL OF HIS TIME WITH SD11 WILL BE LIMITED AND ASKED IF THAT WAS GOING TO MAKE HER EXEMPT FROM RULES AND DISCIPLINE ... HE SAYS I'VE GONE OFF THE DEEP END. HELP!