GG thinks that the reason I vented about steplife is because I'm jealous of the life the Behemoth has with hubby number 2. They have photos of being out on the town together. He described her in that photo as "looking pretty and attractive" etc. It's fairly clear that because of our financial status (aka the Behemoth draining half his pay for the next 13 more years) we don't have the money to live it up like the Behemoth and hubby do. He also compared his "cheating" on the Behemoth when she withheld sex for months at a time to my venting on the internet. ???!!!! Whiskey Tango Foxtrot??!!! He "regrets" handling the fallout of his marriage the way he did and wants us to do "more as a couple." Including going on facebook with couple pictures!! (Editor's note: are you f'n serious??) Frankly I have long lost relatives on my FB page that I don't want him hooking up with as "everything I say will be used against me" i.e. GG is one of those men that uses everything you say/all knowledge about your past, twists it into contortions to prove his point that you are garbage. Yeah I've stopped confiding in him a LOOONG time ago. The LESS he knows the BETTER! I don't have a sordid past but he'll twist it in to one by cracky!

He also decided he's not going to "chew out" the counselor but will talk with her reasonably and wants me to come along. . . . Say WHAAAAATT??!! Um, I'm not going to do the leg work for him anymore because invariably he does a 180 and blames everything on me. I told him that this counselor may be old school and think (like he REALLY does) that stepparents should have no say in this. You should have seen me tap dance a mile a minute to get out of THAT one!!

He also received his annual "review" for Venus De Milo's disability education and the progress or lack of such. I think they are scheduled on the same day and I'm sure if the Behemoth drags in Venus, GG will be bedazzled with his princess daughter. The last time he went to one of these kangaroo sessions, his idea of "Venus should be held back due to her grades" was overridden. The Disability board simply stated that because Behemoth is the "custodial parent" that she has the final say (NOT to hold Venus back a grade due to social reasons but to instead deem her as learning disabled). So much for "joint legal custody" in the state of NY, but I digress.

How does he get off thinking that I should come and "help" him once again, after he bashed me left and right and is constantly saying that I should not have any say in anything to do with HIS KIDS??! Screw that!