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Can ss get a restraining order against his mother?

winnie's picture

The crazy bitch came down last night to our house. She just walked in without even knocking first. I had the baby so I tried to be civil, even though I wanted to punch her ugly mug. She tried to see SS and his daughter. Get this, she tells SS that he should come live with her and they can get welfare money. I knew it. I knew she was being nice all of a sudden just to get something out of it. The stupid woman doesn't even know that her son is making a whole lot of money and probably won't even get welfare. But SS doesn' t want to tell her because she'll try to get her greedy claws all over his savings. So SS just says that he doesn't want to see her again for a while. This sets her off and she called SS some of the most cruel and evil things a person could say, let alone a MOTER! They are so bad I cant even repeat them on this site. SS ended up in tears from everything she said and just left the house with his daughter. I was furious. I totally yelled her out and was one second away from calling the cops. The bitch realised I wasn't kidding and left.

She has been blowing up his cellphone after last night. I cannot believe bm treated her son like that. I wouldnt repeat what she said to my worst enemy. She doesnt deserve to live. MY voice is hoarse from yelling at her last night, but it really felt good. She actually looked scared of me }:)

My question is, can SS get a restraining order against his mother? Does there need to be a physical altercation first?

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Ex4life's picture

I read it as the son was upset and HE left with the baby. I sure hope I'm not wrong. Sad

Ex4life's picture

Yes I would sure think he could. As his child is so syoung he can also get him/her protected as well. He could list you as a witness to the event as evidence to her hostilities and her verbal assault. He should be successful in my opinion.

I got one(in Illinois) for almost the same reasons with no problem. It lasted only 6 months, but in my case was long enough to get my point across. I would suggest it to him anyway. If he looks at it from the point of protecting his child he may go for it.

winnie's picture

Ok, thats good news. I'll tell SS as soon as he gets back home. Hopefully he'll listen. ACtually, I might make my husband tell him, I dont want to get too involved in this.

Ex4life's picture

Don't wait to long or he may have to wait until she does it again. Judges usually go with thought that if you wait then it can't be that serious and they will turn the request down.

youngmama1b1g's picture

Yes, he can get a restraining order for both his daughter and himself. I believe the technical term here in PA, is a protection order or something and it only lasts a couple months unless you can prove other harmful behaviors to have it extended. The fact she walked into your home without being let in alone could prob be enough for an order to be granted for the whole family.