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The Happy Homecoming

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So my bf is finally coming home today after 3 weeks of being gone out of town working..I couldnt be happier! And just to clarify things, me and my 12 yr old son live at his house, and I do love being a house mouse and taking care of my bf when he is in town, I make sure he doesnt have to lift a finger while hes at home. On the downside, I found out last night that Miss Bitch and her bf are coming into town for the weekend. (The SD) She called her dad last night and they talked on the phone while we were on the webcam. So I got to hear one end of the conversation. He asked her if her and the bf would like to go to dinner with me and him and she said no., that she wanted to spend time with him alone. He told her not to be starting that crap and he ended the conversation really quick. The sad part is she is taking stabs at me to hurt me, but its not working with me, its actually hurting her dad something terrible. I have been awake since 5 am laying in bed crying over all this. I know it may seem minute to some, but I have been goin thru this with her for the last 4 yrs. and it hasnt gotten any better, only worse. I am so stressed out and worried today Im afraid I am goin to make myself physically ill. I want so badly to leave the house tonite, but i so want to spend time with my bf. He has to leave out again Sunday, so time is precious with us. I just dont want to sit around with everybody and get treated like Im not even there and that I dont exist. I need some kind of advice or guidance as to how to handle this type of behavior. Should I leave while shes here? Should I become a bigger bitch than her while shes here? Or should I leave it alone and let my BF deal with it. God knows, hes tried so hard to reason with her and hes asked her over and over what her problem is with me and all she will say is "I dont wanna talk about it". And yes, we had a falling out 2 yrs ago, but I thought we had resolved all that and forgave and forgot. And I should also point out that she acted this same way with the GF that my bf had before me. That is alot of the reason they arent together today, because of her. This girl is a true bitch in every sense of the word. (No exaggeration there either)