I am so glad I found this site. here is my story I have been married for 3 years. I am the bio mom of an 8 year old son, and a 5 month old son, I have 3 skids. a sd 18 (thank god) and a 16 year old boy and a 9 year old ss. My issue is like many on here: I cant bring myself to loving them like my own 2 children. They lie just like thier mother and they claim to be Christians because they go to church every sunday but lie soooo much. for that reason alone I dont like them. when they come for the weekends I find myself leaving to go to my parents house to get away, and I take my own children with me. Thier mother is a trip and I cant stand her at all. she is very greedy she gets 2,560 a month in child support and now that the oldest turns 18 she still wants 2,100 a month. My husband is taking her to court for modification, I am really frustrated with her and the kids. am I wrong for feeling resentment??
I love my husband but that mom and the kids i just cant do it