I absolutely hate my step daughter. At age 19 my husband (who I did not know at the time) did what every stupid 19 year old guy does and had sex with a random slut. Unfortunantly she got pregnant. My step daughter is one of the most trashest young girls I have ever met. She and my husband, have a very strange relationship. He tells her everything!!! It makes me so mad. I bet he even talks about our sex life with her. When she vists he gives her our car sometimes leaving me stranded if I wanted to go anywhere. He believes every lie she tells him and forgives her for all her horrible behavior. She has cussed me out twice and I have not spoken to her sense and frankly really don't ever want to talk or see her again. He has this huge guilt that he wasn't there for her when she was growing up and she uses it at every turn to her advantage. Last time she was here she went out with her father (against my wishes) to a bar and got so drunk she past out and punched her father in the face. She dropped out of High School, starting smoking pot at age 14 with her mother who is even more disgusting than she is, and she has been having sex for years. She hates me because I get on to her about her behavior which disgusts me. She spits and burps and talks about unappropriate things. All her stuff on facebook is rap or alcohol or drug related. I am just waiting for her to end up in prison because I know she sells drugs and she steals. I don't want her in my house or around my children EVER!!! I know my husband is going to ask me soon if she can come for a visit and I don't know whether to leave on a trip with the baby somewhere or just tell him NO! I love my husband greatly. He is a wonderful husband, friend, and father but I don't know how to tell him that I don't want him to bring his step daughter around my house ever again without him flipping out. What do you think I should do?