I have been with my SO for 9 months. We live together with my BS and his son comes once a month, honestly I am to the point of exhaustion, depression, and anger in dealing with his ex wife and everything that has happend. Since we have been together the major things that have happend is she called a welfare check on me a little while after my SO let her come see him while he was at work and SS was with me. She broke into his house when we first got together to steal the dog they had when they were married and he had taken care of since she moved out. She filed abuse charges against him and tried them against me but it did not work. As of now she will not allow him to talk to his son unless it is when she wants him to, she will tell him to call at a certain time and then say he is not around and text him later to call right that second and tell him because he was busy he doesn't care about his kid. She tells him all of the time that he treats "HER" son like shit and that he needs to go take care of his new family and leave her son alone. She has contacted people in my life to get info on me and get them to go after me. I'm soo tired of dealing with all of this and as I really feel for my SO I do not know if I can take it. I'm trying really hard to be there for him and his son, but I just cannot do it anymore. I'm tired of her trying to say I beat her kid and we treat him like absolute shit and all of this! I shouldn't have to take abuse from some one I have no ties to. Any suggestions sorry this is all so jumbled I'm really desperate, I have pushed our wedding date back another year because I am not even sure if I want to marry him anymore..