I am having a diff time trying to get my DH to realize that it is nice just to know what SD13 is doing. He doesn't even have to talk about it w/ me or ask my opinion.....Just let me know; this isn't a dorm room!!!
Example; A couple of neighbors, my DH and myself were playing cards Friday night - about midnight one of SD friends comes strolling in to sleep over!! WHAT?!?!?!? Everyone looks at me like - Isn't midnight a little late?? Yep; but I didn't even know about it...

Saturday night my BD11 comes down the stairs and asks if her friend could sleep over - I look at dad just to kind of get an agreed upon Okay (not aproval) He says - "Well SD is having a sleepover so........"

AAAHHHH are you kidding me; do I live here too - I never say no; that's not my point; just leave me in the loop. I feel like SD has the upper hand everytime; It is driving me to pack my suitcases. Any suggestions