I feel horrible saying this but I am dreading my fiance's son coming over today. The reason why I feel bad is b/c he's only four. I always thought I was jealous of him and maybe that's why I hate when he comes around but my fiance still has a relationship with his ex's other son (not his biological child) and I think he is an awesome kid!! We've been together for almost two years now and I still haven't warmed up to him. He just isn't a lovable kid to me. I think what annoys me most is that he is kind of a rude kid. I have always instilled manner in my kids b/c it's important to me. My kids are pretty well-rounded. My four year old is mature for his age. He watches older kid shows on TV and loves playing sports. My fiance's son is kind of a loner and doesn't like to play with many other kids which drives me crazy b/c he is stuck up our butt every time he comes over. it drives me crazy that sometimes he talks like a baby, wears pull-ups and calls then "diapies" and calls his stuffed animals "babies". Maybe I need to cut him some slack. I keep telling myself he is just a kid but it's still hard for me.