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Wrote a can we start fresh email to BM

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Submitted by motherof2 on Thu, 09/30/2010 - 9:08am

SOOOO....I know most of you will say, r u crazy??? I wrote an email to her yesterday requesting that we can start new for the kids sake. I said that me and my ex get along great and it makes it easier for my kids and us. I explained that I am not trying to replace her, and that her kids love her, but I would like to be someone else in there life that loves them. THE BITCH NEVER RESPONDED!!! I am not a home wrecker, she was remarried for 2 years before I met me FDH. So what is her problem? Do I send anything else or blow this in a balloon and let it go? :?

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notthebradybunch6's picture

Submitted by notthebradybunch6 on Thu, 09/30/2010 - 9:11am

Balloon. She is not ready. You can't make her ready. Everything you say is true. It is most likey a territorial issue. There is not much you can do to get her to accept you.

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Submitted by motherof2 on Thu, 09/30/2010 - 9:17am

I'd like to go there and punch her in the mouth instead. OOOPPSSS did I just say that.LOL

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Submitted by stormabruin on Thu, 09/30/2010 - 9:27am

^^^Yep. In order for your letter to have any positive effect, she has to be WILLING to receive it in a positive way. I don't see our BM EVER reaching that point. It took me 9 years to truly realize & accept I couldn't MAKE it happen.