ODUH BM (60 and single) is still a master at manipulating middle aged SS35 and SD 34 over 30 years after her divorce and middle aged skids are such spinelss middle aged saps that they are content to let this continue or are too blind or stupid to stop it.

I have been complaining for a while about adult skids behavior and I knew that ODUH BM was behind some of it but the extent of her involvement is becoming increasingly and somewhat hilariously apparent lately.

One of the incidents that slipped out occurred about 1/2 year ago when SS 35 told H that he had not refused to talk to his dad for over 3 years because of H's refusal to give SS 35 part of H's mother's estate. NO - instead it was because H had not made Longtime and half siblings sign the birthday card he recieved just 6 months ago. SS 35 is so used to having his lies accepted unquestioned he must not have considered the timeline here because he had refused to talk years prior to this! (Ironically, he had refused to talk immediately after he made his inheritance demands and complained about his jealousy over his half siblings christmas presents some 2 1/2 years before the card incident! Now he wanted to make H believe that he instead had been mad all of this time about a birthday card and who signed it!

As part of trying to convince H that the card was the real reason for his anger SS 35 utters these words "My MOM REMINDED ME THAT WHEN I WAS LITTLE THAT SHE ALWAYS MADE ME SIGN MY OWN CARDS!" :jawdrop:

I tis obvious from what slipped out of SS 35's mouth that it never occurred to SS 35 to try to use this lame excuse until vindictive ODUH BM (60 and single) came up with it! SHE REMINDED HIM!!!!!!! When we pointed out that SS 35 never signed the few cards he had ever given to his half siblings he did not bother to respond!

It is obvious from what slipped out of SS 35 mouth that ODUH BM had examined and re-examined that gift card just to find something to get him riled up about. SS 35 is not the sharpest tool in the shed so he would be easy to manipulate by ODUH BM.

In the next to last conversation H had with SS 35, SS 35 was filled with vindictive rage and all he did was talk about what he wanted from H when H died. Not 12 hours later SD 34 calls H up and tells H that she and MOMMY had both told SS 35 that he needed to forgive what had happened in the past and move forward. Yeah, this is the SD that would not take H's calls until just one month ago and now after three years of temper tantrums and name calling she wants H and I to believe that all of a sudden she and MOMMY (BM) are on our side! :sick:

Of course, the next time H calls him SS35 was trying to be somewhat pleasant. MOMMY must have told him to be nice so she could get more info against us to work with!

ODUH BM lives to sit around her kitchen table to talk with adult Sks about every word, every action and every siting of myself, H , H's family and our bio kids. I have no idea what she and adult skids would do with their time without this source of entertainment! We highly highly suspect that they are just being nice to eihter get more scoop or to try another tactic to manipulate us.

I am convinced that an earlier poster is right. These Skids are middle aged adults now that will NEVER change and ODUH BM is only happy when she is stirring up s***. They all have shown how evil they are, and I will never trust any of them again no matter what MOMMY says or does. H privately agrees but of course won't tell adult skids!

Do any of the rest of you have old dried up BM hags that won't get out of your lives years after there was any reason for involvement?
If so, please tell your story on this! If not, does nayone ahve any advice that would stop ODUH BM in her tracks?