My H and his kids left last tuesday, after a harsh month of me and my baby being ignored, when i got home they were finishing loading up the truck with their stuff (and some of mine)...and I felt sooo relieved and happy to finally take control of my own place again with nobody giving us a stink face
Can you guys believe that H didn't even say goodbye to our baby? somehow i feel bad, not because he is not with us anymore but because of him totally ignoring and not caring for our baby it brakes my heart to think that he prefers to not parent his kids than to have a family and raise our son, until today i have not received any sign from him, of course he haven't given me any money, it is hard to think that he is super happy buying the kids everything they asked before they go back to BM (because of course they brought a list of things they "need")and here i'm struggling trying to pay rent and babysitter, but I guess I rather have money problems than steps problems.
So i cancelled H cell phone line from my plan because I discovered that he has been talking for hours every night and texting daily with BM (WTF??) the kids have cell phones each of them, why do they need to talk everynight for more than an hour??? anyways, I cancelled it, considering that he hasn't given me any money to pay the bill in the past 4 months and they might be thinking about getting back togheter.....i'm definitely not paying for it anymore!