Just read a post where a lady was saying she and her fiance are now really on the same page. I say this all the time to my DH. We need to be on the same page about SD13. Finally while she was gone for 2 wks. he started agreeing with me about everything and said YES we ARE going to be on the same page when she returns and things are going to be good! THEN, after 2 fun weeks together (yes, and more s e x than usual) 2 nights before SD13 returns DH turns a total 180! Goes back on everything we agreed on and made it all 100 times worse! We even now have said we are just going to be room mates and live in separate bedrooms! I am even thinking our marriage is never going to last at this rate. WHY, WHY, WHY can't he stick to what he finally commits to? What choices do I have? I don't want to split up. We have only been married barely over a year! Please give me some good advice that has worked for you. PS- And today after we agree to be roommates DH calls and says he wants to come sleep in my room tonight. I don't freakin think so!!!!!