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I am going to start by making some things clear: 1—My husband is stupid/ yes, I know this. 

I met my husband in 2011, but we did not start dating until 2012. He had a 1-year-old son, and I knew what came with this, but I did not expect what came with his mother.

When I first met his mother, she was rude as hell, but I ignored her. As the years went by, I would call him out by calling him a "mama's boy" because he would stand up to her. 

When I got pregnant with my first child in 2014, she straight up told me, "My grandson is my only grandchild." I told her that was perfectly fine because I did not want her near my child. I was fine with that distance relationship, and she was not in the same state as me, so I kept her away from my daughter and had my peace.

Fwd. She told my stupid husband that he had to go to court and make her have custody of her precious grandson (this will come into play later). With that, she took my husband's son with her and honestly I just kept out of it

As the years went on, we moved to another state, and my husband was ready to have his son live with us. I was fine with it because I mean, why not? My MIL at the time was not happy because we were going to be further away from her. She had friends who worked in family court and were able to modify the custody papers ( this will come into play soon).

We were living fine so far, but MIL started to miss her precious grandson back, so she went to my husband's baby, and together, they took my husband to court for kidnapping. YES, that's right, my husband's own mother took him to court for kidnapping, and the judge (her friend) granted my MIL majority custody and the baby custody ( we found this out this year when we went to court).

Anyway, she had this child with her, and by the age of 8, he was corrupted—and I mean corrupted. This kid could not do anything by himself: take a shower, brush his teeth, tie his shoes, feed himself, read and write, or do his own homework. One thing that we noticed was his hate for me, it was very strong and noticeable. He refused to eat if I was in the house, he refused to be near me, and I started to think I smelled because of this kid.

Anyway, my MIL ended up giving my husband his son because her marriage was falling apart, and her husband could no longer take the disrespect from this child, so they were on the verge of divorce.

Now, my stepson from hell lives with us, and life has been hell. He's failing in school, and constantly lying to his teachers (shyt today he almost got his aid fired because of a lie he told)

My husband and I are now arguing every single day because of this kid and slowly I am starting to hate a 13-year-old child let me explain why: he pisses and shyt in his closet because he doesn't want to go to the bathroom he said "I want that B to clean it up, B referring to me, He is constantly lying and stealing, and when he gets caught he will tell more lie, he refused to listen to me or acknowledge my presence, he doesn't respect me and said his mama ( MIL) told him to not respect me til I respect him. 

Trust me, we got him tested, and they told him that besides ADHD, he is fully aware of what he is doing and choosing to do the things he does.

I am so sick of everything and ready to divorce my husband and take my girls because I am so fed up with this; I was pregnant with twins and lost them because of the stress with this kid. My husband says he sees how his son treats me but he is not willing to have his son leave the house.