Now SD 21 is living with us.   SS has continued his nocturanl feeding schedule with a twist. He's awake during the day with periodic naps throughout.   SD joins us for meals.

About a month ago DH smelled pot in SS car and banned him from driving for a month and said if he catches him again he will sell the car. Its the second time he's been caught .    I figure if its in your car you were just smoking it or someoone just smoking it around you in your car.  Needless to say that stopped the going out at 9/10 at night to get you guessed it pot.  

Now his sister is here and we were out talking with neighbors and the woman joked about going and getting weed, his daughter was all over that , yes let's go.  She acknowledged that she won't smoke in the house and that her mom doesn't like the smell.  Anyway I knew it wasnt going to happen, as these people don't go out to the store due to COVID-19.   We were across the street from them talkiing.  Anyhow, three days later SS and SD go off in his car.  Its ok, she's with him.  They were heading to the same town to score the gummies for SS.  Probably scored other stuff , its legal in that state , for medical purposes but ... And they both know better than to drive high.  Yadda yadda.

She's better than him, comes out, talks to us, makes herself at home .  He's a bit better but still largely stays in his room,  He comes up when we're eating off and on but never joins us but will re-heat his meal hours later.  He'll come up and totally ignore everyone.