So SD20 has announced that she has decided that she does what to move to BD state, she gave DW a lot of very mature and adult sounding reasons as to why she has come to this decision.  I give DW credit for not taking it at face value however she is optimistic that SD20 is serious about this decision.

They spent a few hours together last evening and DW was very pleased with the time they had, she kept say that SD20 was very mature during their conversations, which a lot of the time she is not.  That SD20 has noticed patterns within her own life that she doesn’t think she can break out of by staying here.

 DW did make it clear that in no uncertain terms will SD20 be able to move with us to the new house and that when we go she has to as well no matter where she has decided to land, just in case this was a ploy by SD20 to try seem more mature and that we would alter our plans and allow her to move with us, which can’t happen anyways, there won’t be enough room.

So I guess we shall see what transpires, I would be elated to have her no longer around to come by and mooch off of us, usually with others in tow. I know DW will be sad to not have her around but even she has said it would be best for SD20. I know for sure that I will not get acknowledgement or an apology from SD20 before she goes, if she goes, but that’s StepLife right?

Sd26 went to court to weeks ago for one of her drug charges, first the Judge told her never to come to court dressed like that again, she was dressed in a short skirt and low cut top, good for trolling a night club or walking the streets but not good for court lol  Her lawyer informed her that he should have called her because she didn’t need to show up that day as it has been decided that her case is moving to a jury trial lol  She thinks this is a good thing, I personally think she will be getting a longer sentence now, and hope that is true. So hopefully soon I will have both SDs out of the way at least for a while.