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I find my step son really annoying

missmama1234's picture

Hi everyone

I just need to rant..
My step son annoys the shit out of me. He has a bad attitude and thinks he knows more than adults. He can be sweet but lately he has really been getting under my skin. He always has to have the last say. I usually just brush it off because you, kids. Or depending on what it is, I would correct him and he would just say some stupid ahit to prove me wrong even though he is wrong lol

He lives with us full time and BM isn't really involved. I have two boys of my own but they are much younger than he is and I would definitely put them in their place and scold them if they are disrespectful.

The thing that really set me off was that he made a mess with the ketchup and blamed me because of the way I put the ketchup bottle on the table. I lnow it may be trivial but I have been awake every 2 hours woth my nee born and my 1 year okd and I managed to also make lunches and breakfast for the little ungrateful shit. Oh and he ALWAYS eats off the serving plate and the food looks like it got chewed up and ketchup everywhere.. and spit back out and now I don't want to eat out of it. So fucking inconsiderate.

CANYOUHELP's picture

Sounds like you have a lot on your plate, lol..... time for daddeee to be one. Tell him to parent his kid or do all the work (dinner, lunch etc). from now on; then -follow through, given his decision.

YOU are not responsible for his child and if you cannot be treated with respect by him, you disengage with the child -- until somebody notices you're tired of being used and beaten up in you own home.