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The ex buying Xmas gifts...

Sarowyn0608's picture

Am I the only one that this annoys?! Last year she sent DSD to our house with gifts for DH...would have been fine if it was something SD actually picked but is was fucking Star Wars underwear. I was PISSED! I threw them out.
How do I handle this for this year?

Maxwell09's picture

Send it back or toss it in the garbage in front of her so she knows not to bother wasting her money next year.

Sarowyn0608's picture

He doesn't even like Star Wars Sad and yes she is obv
Flirting with him. He was disgusted and told me to throw them out which I would have done anyway lol.
He did tell her to never buy him anything again and that I was capable of taking the kids shopping but honestly, she is an idiot and doesn't care.
Yes, he and I have a son together and o was pregnant with him at the time. They weren't for him.
If she buys a gift
From sd this year...should he take it? If not won't that hurt sd's feelings? Not sure how to handle it

newstepmomof3's picture

Even if she's not flirting with him..she's certainly trying to piss you off. Have him communicate to her that all future gifts sent over will be tossed in the garbage unopened.

Sarowyn0608's picture

Ty ladies! So what if she buys the gift and has sd give it to him? What should he do the ?