DH is still pushing back a bit on split finances. He wondered why I using my money for my dinner out one night. I told him that we are each responsible for our own meals when eating out. Then told him that the same is for clothing because he kept saying he needed new work shoes. He keeps saying he's trying to get used to it all. He tells me last night how much money he has left til next payday with a sad face. I didn't say anything but "yeah?".

MIL told me yesterday that she told DH not to make the trip to see Puke as BM would take that as she never has to bring Puke to see him. I told her that is what I told him but staying out of it. DH said he had planned to go see Puke in a couple weeks but I'm not sure he'll be able to financially.

I feel bad he's struggling but then I think this is necessary to remind him how much he needs me and took advantage of that. Not treating me with respect and not taking my feelings into consideration.