Three weeks ago I watched my sd12 while my husband worked and it wasn't his weekend. Last week it was to be his weekend but since I watched her the following week and week prior, my h told his x that we needed some alone time for Valentine's Day. This week it was his x week but yesterday she called him and cussed him out while he was at work for not picking her up. He told her he had to work and she demanded to know why I couldn't watch my step kid because she got back her income tax and spent it all on a condo at the beach. Thousands of $ on a condo and begs us to buy school clothes and sends the kid over without proper clothing .Besides the point. When he told me that she demanded to know what I was doing I couldn't help but laugh. I said I'm not a baby sitter and her mom needed to be a damn mother. Step talk is rubbing off on me.. I'm proud of myself. Why should I have to watch another woman's kid that I have no say so in her schooling, what she does or her clothing she wears. I don't have plans this weekend because we don't get income tax back. We usually have to pay but only getting a measly 2.00 back from state and federal we broke even. I'm glad we didn't have to pay. I'm drifting g off again. As I was saying, I don't have plans on going anywhere but instead I'm going to sit around all weekend in couch naked under a furry blanket and watch Sparticus.. Damn good movie!