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Help please bm is a hypercondriac narcissist!

Sezzza's picture

I need advice...my SS5 sees his mum for 2 out of every 3 weekends and that's fine drop offs are all fine, but during my SS's kinder Christmas concert the bm made a huge point of mentioning an issue that she had about our care of the child, we have a flea problem during the warmer months so we need to bomb our house again, now of course we sorted that out but SS had some bites on him, during the concert bm said quite loudly knowing there were other kinder family members in earshot "you need to fix the flea problem SS comes to me every weekend with bites, (Not true of course), if your house isn't clean enough you better do something about it" she also mentioned to us that we could take him to the doctors to confirm what the bites were, (she is a little bit of a hypercondriac)......I want to know if it would be wrong of my SO and I to write in the communication book that calling us out on stuff that she has a problem with isn't on and should be confined to the book or would we be out of line...baring in mind she did this because she likes to cause drama

Sezzza's picture

The flea situation is sorted we just bomb every 3 months or so and make sure our pets are always treated and of course the house is always clean....but we were the same and we have floor boards so they live in the floor boards just about 3-6 months they come out again and as soon as I see bites on either of the kids I know it's time to re treat the house...my point is the bm likes to cause trouble by making us out to be the worst parents and I'm trying to work out if I should pull her up on it