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Stalking Issues

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Submitted by sickofbs8 on Mon, 07/13/2015 - 4:54pm

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Does anyone else have issues with being stalked? My DH's ex-wife has taken his children on stalking jaunts since they splint almost 10 years ago. Skids were like 8 and 11. Now it seems that not only does the ex stalk us, but so does her current husband, two children, and another woman he dated over 5 years ago. It is disconcerting to me that people would continue to go out of their way to drive by after all of this time. Furthermore a few months ago current step-dad and youngest daughter came by flipping my husband off. Oldest skid moved within 2 miles and drives by frequently even though with construction there is a more convienent route. Is this unusual? I feel like this is just bizarre behavior.

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Submitted by HappyHome on Tue, 07/14/2015 - 7:18am

Stepdad and youngest daughter flipped your husband off? Way to teach good family values. "Give your dad the finger, sweetie!" These people do sound bizarre and no doubt you are the celebrity in the family since they are so interested in getting a glimpse of you. I don't know if it's stalking -- it is a public street -- and I don't think there is anything you can do about it, legally, that is. How about waving and smiling?

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Submitted by sickofbs8 on Tue, 07/14/2015 - 9:16am

I call it my fan club...but it is a lot like stalking. They turn up regularly where we are...and not real likely all coincidences. My hubby lived on a dead end road and mommy and stepdad would bring the kids to do donuts by his drive even the day after his mother passed. We've had wires to Christmas lights snipped...finger holes in our bathroom screen...stuff dumped in our yard. My daughter and I (and hubby for that matter) have been followed places. My hubby doesn't want any more controversy...just ignore it and fix whatever is done. But before next holiday lights go up we will have security cameras in place so we can have proof... I understand it is all public... I just was wondering if anyone else was in the same boat so to speak. It all is unbelievable to me.

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Submitted by HappyHome on Thu, 07/16/2015 - 1:39pm

Destroying your property is different. Cameras are a great idea and I hope you catch them and haul them into court. They must have empty lives, but getting arrested might remedy that.