We have not seen my boyfriend's daughter since her mother chose to take her out of the school district we live in and allow her to continue to break the rules at our house which was about July of last year. The only time my boyfriend has had contact with his daughter was when he sent her flowers on her birthday (she called and thanked him) and again the day after Christmas. Other than that, they have not really had any contact. We have to attend a funeral tomorrow and both the exwife and the daughter will be there. You see, the exwife is still very close with his family...

I'm not to sure how the whole thing will go - the last time we were at a family event, the daughter was allowed to be disrespectful, not talk to us and had a snotty look the whole time - she didn't think I had the right to be there even though I had been invited by the family...

Any advice on tomorrow's encounter would be appreciated. I am going to be there to support the family, not to worry about how to act in front of the ex and the daughter. Ugh!