Got the skids back this morning. Youngest one looks so sad and depressed any time I try to speak to him. Other one is fine. So I take them with me to rub some errands DH can sleep a little since works nights. The pout continues on with the youngest (oh well I tried)... So we are almost home and I ask did your mom feed you breakfast this morning and they say no. I said really? And you have said in hungry yet? And they say They aren't hungry .. Usually within 10 min they r saying can we have food they didn't feed us .. So we get home and they go wake their dad and their little brother up.. With in 2 min I hear DH fussing at YSS and sending him to his room .. Apparently he was telling BS to say something regarding his private part.. Of course SS cries says I didn't say it even tho DH was sitting next to him ... 10 min later DH asks them about breakfast and thy say they haven't had any and want to know what we r having ..he looks at me like why didn't u feed them...I explain and he says well you prob should have said something when she had u out and asked ...10 min later I go to put some laundry in the step kids room and as I walk in I see OSS swatting bs .. I ask why he did that and he said well he said a bad word .. I send bs to the other room and tell SS that's not his place to spank him... I fuss at bs explaining we don't use bad words ...

It's continual thing .. YSS puts bs up to fail language just bc He's a little shit ..we are constantly discipline the little one for his mouth and behavior and it's hard to keep doing it when his brother keeps encouraging it.. OSS is constantly trying to daddy both ... I catch him trying to spank again and there won't be just a little don't do that ..
I make eggs for breakfast ... SS who is 9 managed to have eggs on himself, the table, the chair & the floor..seriously your 9!!!