I just have to post this - I was at SD daugther's christening this past Sunday. BM was there with her husband. DH's family as well. DH and I always get a little anxious when we know we have to see BM but what are we going to do. BM was actually very nice to me and DH's family. Made an effort to come over and say hi. There has been so much anger in the past and because of her I almost left the marriage at one point.

On the way home I felt as if a weight had been lifted off my shoulders - I just cannot be mad and resentful anywhere. I will likely always have a relationship with my SD and I know that POS drug addict SS is never coming back into to life.

I felt at peace and very grateful for a wonderful DH and in laws.