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SS Changes Name and Moves in the Real Birth Mother

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Submitted by karenemoy on Mon, 09/22/2014 - 1:51pm

SS is 24 years old and he is adopted. We have not had much contact with him since he took off 3 years ago refusing help for his heroin addiction (multiple stays in rehab paid for by me and DH). SS knew he could no longer manipulate us for money - good riddence.

Come to find out (via Facebook since BM and Real BM are friends) he contacted his real birth mother and moved about 1000 miles away. Real birth mom is total WT. So the SS idiot changes his name. Basically disowned his parents.

Just makes me so mad after everything we did for him. What a piece of shit.

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Submitted by karenemoy on Mon, 09/22/2014 - 2:02pm

When the BM and Real BM spoke same story - SS was going to get a job - blah blah blah. She is on welfare and somehow paid outstanding fines for him - unreal. BM tried to warn her but she defended him. Good luck lady. I can only IMAGINE the guilt trip that POS SS laid on her about putting him up for adoption.

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Submitted by ChiefGrownup on Mon, 09/22/2014 - 6:25pm

A good friend of mine gave up a baby for adoption when she was 17. Fastforward 17 or 18 years and the boy found her, disowned his other parents, and clung to her like a barnacle. Oh, at some point there was back and forthing with the adoptive parents.

Anyway, as of now my friend has basically disowned this kid -- in and out of jail and rehab repeatedly. And tragically she gets custody of HIS 2 kids from time to time now. Didn't raise the boy (now in his 30s) but she gets the pleasure of having to step in and rescue the grandchildren from time to time.

BTW, she's a good person, owns her own successful business, and the child she did raise is super awesome and will graduate college next year.

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Submitted by Ughugh on Mon, 09/22/2014 - 6:36pm

Sue him for all the back child support and include BM in the lawsuit. Never know, might obtain a landmark ruling. I did. The Courts are still following old Judeo-Christian customs and the adopted son is supposed to support the adoptive parents.

But then again-good riddance. Please please please never ever ever have contact with this predator again.