FFIL has been sick. FDH has kept both BMs in the loop, we couldn't take the SDs to see FFIL on fathers day or at all on FDHs most recent weekend becaus he was in the hospital getting a g-tube, and FDH knew he would be coming home and it was just too much to have the girls see him connected to machines and tubes if they didn't have to.

FFILs oncologist said on Monday that FFIL had at best 2 weeks because his cancer was too far gone for radiation or chemo. They set him up at home with a hospice nurse and everthing, FDH called both BMs. BM1 said he could take SD5 rightr off the school bus yesterda to go see FFIL. BM2? SD8 had a playdate, it was REALLY important and FDH could have SD for a few hours over the weekend.

FFIL passed away last night. SD8 never got to see him or say goodbye. And she hasn't seen him since her EOWE visit before this most recent one. it's not like FFIL was some random grandparent she never saw either, BM1 used to leave her with FFIL instead of getting a babsitter, and up until the beginning of June, we lived with FFIL and FMIL so she saw them EOWE for two days. They also used to pick her up while FDH was at work and do things with her. SD8 is close to FFIL is what I'm saying, and her stupid bitch of a mother cost her the last chance she had to see him.