So BM just spit out baby #3 to baby daddy #3. Did I mention that she never would pay her half of the divorce (they have been seperated for 3 years) until about 2 weeks ago so she is still legally married to my SO who is of course not the father of this new baby. So in NC that means she can put my SO as the birth father simply because they are legally married and take him out for child support. The court will dismiss it once he requested a DNA test but still she could do that. But I'm not even that concerned about that, he is where I got so mad. I texted him that I needed to know what time SD8 was going home on Sunday. 4pm is her assigned time however in the custody papers it clearly says that Cum Dumpster gets her at 9am on Mother's Day. I explained I was making reservations for lunch for my Mom and needed to know how many to make it for. He texts me back and apparently Cum Dumpster has informed him that she had her "new baby" yesterday and just didn't know when she would be able to take SD8 back because she was just exhausted from the labor.

UMMMM Bitch! This is your 3rd kid and you got knocked up ON PURPOSE to trap this most recent loser, we call him Thug Life, and you are too tired to get your old kid back? But keep in mind the 10 year old son of hers stays 100% of the time so where is he? Did you just lock him in a closet because you are too tired to take care of him?

My SO says I'm over reacting...REALLY? I told him this would happen, if SD8 was with us when Cum Dumpster gave birth she would try to dump her on us. He said, I don't consider getting extra time with my child dumping her on me. I said well considering the fact that your daughter has absolutely no respect for me or you for that matter and you do not feel the need to actually parent her properly, I feel like she is dumping her on us!

So I called the resturant and made the reservation for 4. That is for my BD11 and my parents. I'm so done! I am done working my schedule around BM and all her bullshit when it comes to SD8. I've tried so hard. I actually love this man but he has ruined that child so that she isn't loveable. SSD8 flat out told my mom ( who is the sweetest grandma) she didn't like her recently so I'm not inviting either of them to spoil a nice lunch with my Mom on Mother's Day.

Oh and one more food for thought! I already paid this overpriced photographer 3 months ago to have a session tomorrow at a local park for our "family picture". Guess it will just be me and my kiddo now.